Marketers ask me if I’ve found the secret to blasting out ad messages to twitter users.

Many don’t get that it’s pretty near impossible to sell with “interruption messages” today.

But that doesn’t mean that no one is making money from Twitter relationships. The key difference is the motivation.

If you join twitter just to find buyers, people will avoid you. On Twitter, it’s so easy to unfollow or block an annoying person.

We’re now collecting stories like this one about a Real Estate agent that connected with a local person on Twitter and didn’t just say “got a property to list”.

That’s the secret.

Use twitter to network. Listen to the marketplace. Help people. Provide value. Do this on Twitter and pretty soon BINGO! Someone says, “Hey - you seem like a nice person to do business with!”

What’s your twitter MONEY story? Post a comment and let me know about high dollar deals and people making money by using Twitter so we can have a Twinterview with you or a follower for the Twitter Handbook.